Planning your wedding yourself can be rewarding, cost-effective, and highly personal. Denmark, known for its straightforward marriage process and stunning venues, is a perfect place for a DIY wedding. Whether you’re planning a cozy elopement or a grand celebration, here’s how to organize your own wedding in Denmark without a planner.
1. Legal Requirements for Getting Married in Denmark
Denmark is known for its easy marriage laws, making it a great choice for international couples.
Apply for Marriage Approval – Submit your application to Danish Family Law (Familieretshuset) online. Documents Needed: Valid passports, proof of marital status, and possibly a residency certificate. Witnesses Required – If you’re having a civil ceremony, you’ll need two witnesses (which can be provided). Processing Time – Approval usually takes 1-3 weeks.
Tip: Check the latest requirements with Danish authorities before submitting documents.
2. Choosing the Perfect Venue
City Hall Ceremonies – A simple and elegant option in Copenhagen, Aarhus, or Ribe. Beach & Outdoor Weddings – Denmark’s coastline is perfect for seaside ceremonies (Tisvildeleje, Skagen, Ærø). Castle & Manor Weddings – Host your celebration in a historic venue like Dragsholm Castle or Hindsgavl Castle. Forest & Nature Settings – Romantic locations like Rold Skov or Møns Klint.
Tip: Book your venue at least 6-12 months in advance for peak seasons.
3. DIY Wedding Decor & Theme Ideas
Minimalist Scandinavian Style – Clean lines, neutral tones, and elegant floral accents. Wildflower Bouquets – Use seasonal, locally sourced flowers for a natural look. Handmade Wedding Favors – Danish chocolates, mini candles, or DIY keepsakes. Eco-Friendly Decor – Reusable materials, dried flowers, and repurposed furniture.
Tip: Pinterest & Instagram are great for DIY wedding decor inspiration.
4. Finding a Photographer & Capturing the Moments
Even a DIY wedding deserves professional photos to preserve the memories.
Hire a Professional Wedding Photographer – Look for someone with experience in Danish wedding settings. Create a Photo List – Plan which moments you want captured (ceremony, first dance, details). DIY Photo Booth – Set up a fun backdrop with instant cameras for guests to use.
Tip: Book your photographer early—top professionals get booked months in advance.
5. Music, Entertainment & Wedding Playlist
DIY Music Setup – Rent high-quality speakers and curate a Spotify playlist. Live Band or DJ – Consider local folk musicians, jazz bands, or acoustic singers. Personalized Dance Floor – Use a custom playlist for your special moments.
Tip: Create different playlists for the ceremony, dinner, and reception.
6. DIY Catering & Cake Options
Danish Smørrebrød Buffet – A fun, traditional open-faced sandwich spread. Food Truck Catering – A trendy and casual option for outdoor weddings. Local Bakeries for Wedding Cakes – Order a kransekage (Danish marzipan cake). DIY Dessert Table – Include homemade treats, pastries, and chocolates.
Tip: Hire servers or ask friends to help manage food and drinks.
7. Creating a DIY Wedding Timeline
Set a Planning Timeline – Break tasks into monthly to-dos leading up to the big day. Confirm Vendor Bookings – Photographer, venue, and catering should be confirmed at least 3-6 months ahead. Have a Backup Plan – For outdoor weddings, rent a tent or have an indoor option. Delegate Tasks – Assign small jobs to friends and family.
Tip: Use wedding planning apps to stay organized.
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